Sad news to report that my first trip back to the theaters in the year 2021 was more underwhelming than I had hoped. Gabriela Cowperthwaite's Our Friend is a passable but recycled story about caring for someone with cancer. This type of story is one that will never fail to make me emotional, mainly because of personal experience with cancer in my family, but it's one that I just could never fully latch on to. Its characters are mildly interesting, its direction is solid, and the fact that it is based on a true story from an article is enough to draw me in, but I could never shake the feeling that I had seen this kind of film before. This isn't to say that this heartwrenching story shouldn't have been told, but rather that it is a difficult one to approach in the first place. The performances from the whole cast were phenomenal and there is so much heart put into the adaptation of this story but I just think that heart was a bit used up already.
When Matt (Casey Affleck) finds out that his wife Nicole (Dakota Johnson) has terminal cancer, he is at odds with how to manage his personal life consisting of his journalism career and two daughters. Family friend Dean (Jason Segel) steps up to the plate and moves in with them for a few weeks to help get Matt settled back in the routine of his life but ends up staying for much longer than anticipated when Dean becomes a greater friend than they could have ever asked for. Any film that is about cancer in any capacity always has the potential to be a tearjerker regardless of genre. It's a terrifying thing to think about and one that I feel any right-minded person could feel for; which is why focusing this film on the relationship between the couple and their incoming friend is a bit strange. I went into Our Friend expecting most of the movie to be about Nicole's struggle with cancer or how much Dean's help meant to the two but what I got was an examination into the psyche of her husband Matt instead. Not only was I vastly uninterested in the character of Matt right off the bat but I was a bit frustrated with how much Cowperthwaite focused on him. If this film would have been entirely about Nicole and how her fight with cancer affected the people around her or even about Dean coming in to help the family and how it took a toll on him emotionally, that would have been fantastic. While the film with its already too long of a runtime does indeed touch on those things, I was just a bit disappointed when Casey Affleck was given the spotlight. The script by Brad Ingelsby does its best to keep the audience invested in the stakes of this family's story but I have really seen this story before. Nothing about the characters' lives or interests or careers were original enough to make me wholeheartedly engaged but Ingelsby does just enough to make me want to see what happens next.
Cowperthwaite's direction is pretty strange throughout the entirety of Our Friend because while she demonstrates a very strong ability to carry a story, I just don't think she handled it in the best way possible. I never had problems with following along with the story or anything but the nonlinear approach to the film never seemed to serve any purpose. No events were really connected and no purpose to the chronological scattershot of the plot (scatterplot?) was ever shown and after a while, I just began to think that it was a choice made due to the dull nature of the story in the first place. I honestly began to wonder when Nicole would ever die just so I could move on past that part that I knew was coming. Cowperthwaite is a great director, but I just think she needs better or more original material to work with. Thankfully, even though I have seen this kind of story before and the way that it brings out emotions from its audience is nothing new, Dakota Johnson and Jason Segel's performances are just aces. Johnson has been getting some fantastic roles in the past few years and I am so happy to see her career skyrocket past the "one girl from Fifty Shades of Grey" stance. She is able to really nail the complex range of emotions seen from someone with cancer as well as the loving side of her motherhood seen in the flashbacks. Segel is really the standout of this movie, however, as his caring side is put on full display in his character. He is really just a giant, lovable, teddy bear that makes every film he is in miles better, and to see him placed in a suiting role like this just makes sense. Like I said, I wish his story would have been given more focus (enough to justify the film being titled about him) but the scenes he was in were just great to watch. This entire cast works well together and their chemistry is really what saves this movie from being an even more forgettable cancer story.
It's a good thing that I was not expecting to be blown away by this film because sometimes, all one needs is an emotional trip to make sure that they still feel things. Our Friend is great at doing just that and while I was never really astounded by any of the storytelling choices that were made, it is just effective enough to warrant a watch. Segel and Johnson absolutely steal this film more than anything and if more focus had been placed on their subplots, I would have been much more interested. But alas, we got what we got and I am satisfied enough to be able to say that I enjoyed it.
My Rating: ★★★